Welcome back to 50 PLUS A TIP Podcast and you guys are in for a treat! This episode Riley and I sit down with the extremely knowledgeable, SWer ally, and absolute powerhouse Tamara O’Doherty. Tamara is a lecturer in the School of Criminology at Simon Fraser University (the #1 university in Canada for criminology), with several research projects and publications related to the impacts of criminalization, victimization in commercial sex, legal analyses of human trafficking, and other human-rights and knowledge production publications. Prior to her academic involvement, Tamara spent decades working along side sex workers and other sex worker allies, primarily in Vancouver's Downtown East-side, and during the height of the missing women's crisis, throughout the Pickton trial and its related media frenzy, through the 2010 Olympics, the BC provincial Inquiry into the missing women's crisis, and through the Bedford and SWUAV legal cases as they each made their way through the court system.
If that intro is any indicator - we had a LOT to discuss this episode, so we had to break it up into 2 PARTS.
This first part of the interview we cover: What is the current SW research showing us? Why are there so many misunderstandings and so much misinformation about SW? Is s3x trafficking a real concern? What is the Bedford case, Bill c36, PCEPA and what are their implications? What are some legal changes that should occur and what would the desired results be? And from a research standpoint - are there benefits to commercial sex?
Once you’re done learning about all that, head over to PART 2 of this interview where we ask Tamara all your listener questions!
Welcome back to 50 PLUS A TIP Podcast! This week’s episode we start with discussing (trigger warning) the tragic Atlanta massage parlour shooting. Our hearts go out to the loved ones of the 8 individuals whose lives were taken and to both the Asian community and the SW community . ♥️
In positive news - we are now on APPLE PODCASTS so please RATE, REVIEW & SUBSCRIBE! This week we discuss the results of our beans on toast poll, the name of our v@ginas (apparently mine is named “Just Like Heaven” and Riley’s is “the Cecil Hotel”), and whether or not you should tell your partner when you get hit on. We also answer your listener questions: How can you stay safe at work during cov!d? When should you tell a new client your prices? Who pays for the hotel? Should you admit to guys at the club that you’re in a relationship or always say you’re single? How do you get the body confidence to be in a room with only lingerie on? And more!
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... Thanks for listening & make sure to check out our amazing sponsors !!
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This week Riley and I are joined by Chloe - she’s the host of Stripper Stories Podcast (@stripperstoriespodcast), as well as, a domme, an exotic dancer and a sex industry expert who has been working in the adult industry for 10 years! We discuss: how the industry has changed over the last decade, her experiences working in a British dungeon as a professional domme, what it’s been like shifting to online SW, common misconceptions regarding the professional Dom/Sub community and... DUBAI PORTA POTTIES ?!!?
💩 = 💰?!?
Also - catch us on Chloe’s podcast @stripperstoriespodcast; coming out soon!
🎙 50PAT is Available on: Spotify, stitcher, google podcast, google play & www.50plusatip.com!
... Thanks for listening & make sure to check out our amazing sponsors !!
🍄 Bright Future is a Canadian (code: TIP15) company that makes all natural premium quality microdosing products. Their products are designed to stimulate focus, creativity, energy, and boost your mood while decreasing stress and inflammation in the body. If you’re looking for something that will help you feel and function better, Bright Future’s got you covered! Check them out on instagram @get.brightfuture and on their website getbrightfuture.co. Use the code TIP15 at checkout for a discount!
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😉 Luvify (code: 50PLUSATIP) is a Canadian Brand that is focused self love and pleasure. They're all about empowering women and encouraging them to express their s3xuality openly in a judgement free environment. Click the link in @50plusatip ig and use code 50PLUSATIP to get 10% your s3xy order !
Welcome back my lovelies and HAPPY INTERNATIONAL WOMEN’S DAY (day/week/month/year/ life) ! This week we discuss the best advice we’ve received from other females, share some facts about badass women in history and do some more quizzes (because we know how much y’all love a good quiz).
We also answer your listener questions: Where did the catch phrase “Have a wonderful week and happy h0e-ing” come from? What’s a “high roller” and how do you identify them ? What are our thoughts on the HBO tv show P-VALLEY and how close does the show resemble real life? And what turns us on emotionally instead of physically?
🎙 50PAT is Available on: Spotify, stitcher, google podcast, google play & www.50plusatip.com!
... Thanks for listening & make sure to check out our amazing sponsors !!
🍄 Bright Future is a Canadian (code: TIP15) company that makes all natural premium quality microdosing products. Their products are designed to stimulate focus, creativity, energy, and boost your mood while decreasing stress and inflammation in the body. If you’re looking for something that will help you feel and function better, Bright Future’s got you covered! Check them out on instagram @get.brightfuture and on their website getbrightfuture.co. Use the code TIP15 at checkout for a discount!
💋 Temptations Avenue Lingerie (code: TIP25) @temptationsavenue
😉 Luvify (code: 50PLUSATIP) is a Canadian Brand that is focused self love and pleasure. They're all about empowering women and encouraging them to express their s3xuality openly in a judgement free environment. Click the link in @50plusatip ig and use code 50PLUSATIP to get 10% your s3xy order
Hello my loves!! It’s been a few weeks since Riley and I sat down just the two of us and caught up with y’all. We have been busy these past few weeks: we have two new sponsors - Luvify s3x toys and Micro dosing Mushroom company Bright Future and we were guests on the On The Scene / Ebb and Flow podcast (@ebbandflowpodcast) and Str!pper Stories podcast (@stripperstoriespodcast). So make sure to check out those sponsors and those podcast episodes! Also... WE’RE ALMOST AT 10K - So make sure you’re reposting, sharing and getting your friends to follow @50plusatip Instagram (we want that damn “swipe up” option)!
This episode we talk about our lovely trip to Sparkling Hill Resort, my guest lecture at a local university, and answer your listener questions: why do you use the term “SWer” for str!ppers? Can a plus size woman have a career in SW? What to do when working in SW causes you to have a lower s3x drive? How do you ask a crush / friends with benefits to pay you?
That’s it for this episode!
DM me and let us know if you guys have any brands you think we should take on as a sponsor and/or any podcasts you love that you think we should be on!
Thanks for listening & make sure to check out our amazing sponsors !!
BRIGHT FUTURE (code: TIP15)
Bright Future is a Canadian company that makes all natural premium quality microdosing products. Their products are designed to stimulate focus, creativity, energy, and boost your mood while decreasing stress and inflammation in the body. If you’re looking for something that will help you feel and function better, Bright Future’s got you covered! Check them out on instagram @get.brightfuture and on their website getbrightfuture.co
Use the code tip15 at checkout for a discount!
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Luvify is a Canadian Brand that is focused self love and pleasure. They're all about empowering women and encouraging them to express their s3xuality openly in a judgement free environment. Click the link in @50plusatip ig and use code 50plusatip to get 10% your s3xy order !
This week we are sitting down with Master Chef winner Courtney Lapresi (@theposhtart) - a brilliant cook who also happens to have 11 years of experience in the adult entertainment industry! Courtney is an Adult Entertainer, Pole Artist and Digital Creator. She is most widely known as the Season 5 Winner of MasterChef, and author of Everyday Fancy- 65 Easy, Elegant Recipes for Meals, Snacks, Sweets, and Drinks. With over a decade of experience in the Adult Entertainment Industry and a BFA in Dance Performance from The University of the Arts, Courtney has been awarded titles such as Entertainer of the Year and Pole Champion, and has worked in clubs in Philadelphia, Atlantic City, Denver, and South Florida. We talk to Courtney about: the shame she felt in being proud of her work, stripping as “luxury sales”, why she decided to try out for MasterChef and how she crushed the competition, what it was like being outed as a SWer on national television and the backlash she received (including Twitter death threats), and how she is now coming into her own and owning her SW career proudly!
As always, have a wonderful week and happy h0e-ing!
Welcome to our VALENTINE’S DAY edition of 50 Plus A Tip Podcast 🌹 Today we are doing something a little different - we found some Valentine’s Day fun facts to share and we do some quizzes to find out how we will be celebrating V day, what kind of Valentine we are, and who our perfect Valentine’s partner is.
And, of course, we answer your listener questions: what dating apps we recommend, how to respond to people who try to shame you for being a SW, and what our post-work routines consist of.
Thanks for listening my lovelies! 💋 Have a wonderful Valentine’s Day and happy h0e-ing!
Today we are sitting down with Danielle (ownmylovedanielle@gmail.com). For 27 years she has been a loving husband and father of two teens. Now at 49 she is newly discovering her gender identity presenting as female. In the process she is discovering her own biases and judgments, enabling her to finally learn and love her true self. We talk: pronouns and name choices, transitioning while in a 27 year long marriage, talking to her children about expressing her female side, the most challenging aspects throughout her transition, advice for those who are going through a similar situation, and misconceptions about transitioning that need to be corrected.
It has been such a pleasure to watch Danielle come into her own and we are so proud of the progress she has made / continues to make - they grow up so fast!
Thanks for listening! Have a wonderful week and happy h0e-ing!
Well lovely listeners, it’s been a little bit since you’ve heard from just the two of us chatting with one another and WE’RE HERE to talk about... BUTT STUFF! 🍑This weeks episode is short, sweet and straight to the point - you guys sent us quite a few questions regarding anäí play so let’s have a quick chat about it !
Butt... bums the word 😉 (ok enough with the puns.)
Have a wonderful week and happy h0e-ing!
“But who would marry a SWer?” “Are you going to keep doing this when you’re a mom?” “What are your kids going to think?” Society seems to think that SW and being a wife / mother cannot coexist - this week we have Jayne (therighteousstrip@outlook.com) joining us to tell the world how wrong that ideology is! Jayne is a fssw as well as a devoted mother and a loving wife. We chat with Jayne about: what a typical “date” looks like, how she finds and vets clients, how she remains safe while working, how sex with clients differs from sex in her personal life, how she manages being a fssw and a wife, how she navigates being a mother and a SWer, and how she maintains her mental health while being a working mom and partner.
As always, thanks for listening and happy hoe-ing (especially to all you hard working mamas out there!)
Gia metric (@gia.metric), one of Canada’s top drag entertainers, has graced our universe since 2014. Since then, Gia has perfected their spacey, high-fashion persona and captivated countless venues and cities with their superstar qualities. Their endearing personality and advocacy of mental health awareness has made Gia a role model within their community and online.
This episode we sit down with the fabulous Gia Metric and discuss: what terminology is appropriate and what is outdated, how to properly ask someone their pronouns and why it’s important, how Gia first got into drag and how it has developed over time, how one becomes a drag super star, the difficulties of dating as a drag artist, and some misconceptions / stigmas about drag that need to be debunked.
It was an absolute treat sitting down with Gia this week and we know you’re all going to love listening to this episode! 💋
Have a wonderful week and happy ho-ing!
Happy 2021 my dears!! Welcome to the first episode of the new year! Danica is joined by Riley and we discuss: how we spent New Years Eve 2020, our resolutions for 2021, and our current podcast obsessions (Danica is LOVING Dr. Death podcast and Riley is a HUGE fan of the podcast My Favourite Murderer). And we tackle your first batch of questions for 2021: Is it cheating if you get paid ? Is it cheating if you are the one who’s paying for it ? If a customer wants to see you outside the club - What’s a reasonable amount and how do you make it seem valuable to them without doing extras? And what Cam sites do we suggest?
Thanks for listening and we hope you are all having a fabulous start to 2021 !
Today we are joined by the fabulous Nicolle Hodges. She’s a Sexual Freedom Philosopher, an author, and a journalist (just to name a few titles). Pretty much Nicolle is "the Dr. Seuss of sex." She’s the founder of GIRLS WHO SAY FUCK , the creator of MEN WHO TAKE BATHS and the force behind the T-shirt campaign to "rebrand virginity to Sexual Debut". Nicolle is a former television personality for CTV Vancouver, which included reporting from Lesbos, Greece where she started an art camp for kids at the peak of the refugee crisis. She is also the former media consultant for the United Nations Women advisory committee in Vancouver and currently takes on the role of a lifestyle domme for a few lucky subs. This episode unpacks a ton of interesting topics: What do the terms “masculine “ and “feminine “ mean to you? What is it like coming out to the world as bisexual? What is a lifestyle domme? Why is the term “sex work” so charged? What does it mean to be sexually liberated and how can we get there?
We know you guys are going to LOVE this discussion and thank you for listening.
Have a wonderful New Year and happy ho-ing!!
Well my dears, IT’S CHRISTMAS TIME (in 2 days)!! We hope you are all having a fabulous December and getting into the Christmas spirit as best you can (even though we can’t do a whole lot of socializing / celebrating this year… thanks C0vid). This episode we discuss: failed Christmas plans and gifts, the new Instagram and Tik Tok terms of use, companies exploiting the industry without supporting the community, advice for new “Ownlee F@ns” models, explain the Nordic model and how to manage a career dancing while wearing braces. Also, keeping with the holiday spirit, we answer your Christmas themed questions: When did we learn Santa wasn’t real? Christmas music - love it or hate it? What’s our favourite Christmas song & movie? What are our favourite Christmas traditions ?
As always, thank you for listening! Have a wonderful Christmas and happy ho ho ho-ing
Buckle up because this episode is another TWO- PARTER you won’t want to miss!
Two episodes ago we had the lovely Samantha Mack join us to give us the female perspective on the p0rn industry. Today we are joined by male p0rn star Derrick Pierce (@derrickpierce) to give us his take on the world of p0rn. Derrick is an American p0rn actor, p0rn director and host of his own podcast “THE SCHOLAR AND SINNER”. Known as the “Bad Boy of Adult” he’s been featured on GQ.com and buzzfeed, as well as being currently nominated for a yet ANOTHER AVN Award! We cover a ton of topics in this episode: what makes a a good make p0rn actor; how p0rn has changed in recent years; how psychotherapy helped his p0rn career; what it’s like dating as a porn star; and we get answers to a LOAD (no pun intended) of your listener questions!
Lastly, don’t forget to use our discount codes and save money when you purchase from our amazing sponsors:
- code : TRULYPLUSATIP (@trulylifestylebrand)
- code: DANI10 (@missenvybotanicals)
- code: TIP25 (@temptationsavenue)
- code: DANIHAIR (@tiffany.valentina.bella)
Buckle up because this episode is another TWO- PARTER you won’t want to miss!
Two episodes ago we had the lovely Samantha Mack join us to give us the female perspective on the p0rn industry. Today we are joined by male p0rn star Derrick Pierce (@derrickpierce) to give us his take on the world of p0rn. Derrick is an American p0rn actor, p0rn director and host of his own podcast “THE SCHOLAR AND SINNER”. Known as the “Bad Boy of Adult” he’s been featured on GQ.com and buzzfeed, as well as being currently nominated for a yet ANOTHER AVN Award! We cover a ton of topics in this episode: what makes a a good make p0rn actor; how p0rn has changed in recent years; how psychotherapy helped his p0rn career; what it’s like dating as a porn star; and we get answers to a LOAD (no pun intended) of your listener questions!
Lastly, don’t forget to use our discount codes and save money when you purchase from our amazing sponsors:
- code : TRULYPLUSATIP (@trulylifestylebrand)
- code: DANI10 (@missenvybotanicals)
- code: TIP25 (@temptationsavenue)
- code: DANIHAIR (@tiffany.valentina.bella)
HAPPY DECEMBER - Tis the season (of stress)!!! This episode is short but sweet 💋 I’m joined by Riley via zoom and we discuss: school stress, the deadness of work this December, completing all our Christmas shopping, all the fun Christmas events we have planned, Riley’s upcoming surgery, and the new Instagram Terms of Use.
We also learn that Riley is a very “every person for themselves” type of girlfriend and Danica is an “us against the world” type partner.
Lastly, don’t forget to use our discount codes and save money when you purchase from our amazing sponsors:
- code : TRULYPLUSATIP (@trulylifestylebrand)
- code: DANI10 (@missenvybotanicals)
- code: TIP25 (@temptationsavenue)
- code: DANIHAIR (@tiffany.valentina.bella)
PART 2/2 : Today we are joined by the sexy and talented SAMANTHA MACK (@thesamanthamack_) ! She’s a p0rn star, p0rn producer, teaches women how to be successful in the industry, and is the host of a ton of different things ! Her resume is longer than a CVS receipt - from a lifeguard to a str!pper to a dj to a stand up comedian, there’s not much this gorgeous power house can’t do !
The three of us cover a TON of topics in this episode: how she entered into the industry, how it was being a stand up comic, what scenes she won’t do in p0rn, what ethical p0rn means, what it’s like dating as a p0rn star, what it takes to have a successful career in the industry, how to maintain your s3xual health, and a ton more!
From designer labias to male skid marks - this episode is a long one but SO worth it! Make sure to listen to PART 1 AND 2!
Lastly, don’t forget to use our discount codes and save money when you purchase from our amazing sponsors:
- code : TRULYPLUSATIP (@trulylifestylebrand)
- code: DANI10 (@missenvybotanicals)
- code: TIP25 (@temptationsavenue)
- code: DANIHAIR (@tiffany.valentina.bella)
