Happy Mother’s Day to all the lovely mamas out there!!
This episode we are switching it up - Riley will be interviewing with me! Today we are joined by Mrs.Black AKA Sasha Leigh (@foximonoxide) - she’s been an award winning showgirl for 15 years and has toured all over the world doing live performance and some mainstream film acting and modelling. She is currently doing her best to balance her successful career with being a newlywed and first time mum. Who better to have on for Mother’s Day week?!
We had a ton of questions for the new mother : how has it been being so transparent as a mother and a wife in the entertainment industry? What fears and anxieties she faced finding out she was pregnant 2.5 months before her wedding? How did she handle dancing during and after her pregnancy? How have her and her husband managed to maintain a healthy relationship while working in the industry? How has the industry changed over the last 15 years? And of course, is childbirth really as painful as we hear?
Happy first Mother’s Day to the amazingly talented and lovely, Sasha Leigh !
Thanks for listening and happy hoe-ing!!
** Don’t forget to sign up for the VIRTUAL LAP DANCE WORKSHOP taking place May 21st! **
Hey guys - It’s Dani (“Danica” if we want to get professional), joined once again by Riley and we cover A LOT this episode: instagram shadow bans, Corona racism, FaceTime dates, Danica Darling’s Instagram is a Spanish home-wrecker, our confrontation (it’s a positive thing) with a fellow podcast, and PORN PORN PORN!
We read two hilarious messages from listeners : one who was emailed by a cat fish pretending to be his wife in an embarrassing attempt to get nudes and another who had to console a guy about his ex girlfriend mid-penetration. We also tackle your questions:
Are we okay with listeners subscribing to our OníyFans ?... (FUCK YES!) Do we feel sex work can be lonely? How do you find private gigs? How do you pick a stripper name?
PSAs :
* Online lap dance workshop = May 21st @ 7pm (use the link in @50plusatip bio to buy your ticket)
* Ethical porn to check out: Erika Lust (@erikalust), Four Chambered Heart (www.afourchamberedheart.com), Make love Not Porn (@makelovenotporn), & www.kink.com
* Use code “TRULYPLUSATIP” to get 10% off your first order of amazing skincare products from Truly Lifestyle Brand (@trulylifestylebrand)
* Use code “TIP25” to get 25% off your entire order of seductive lingerie from Temptations Avenue Lingerie (@temptationsavenuelingerie)
Today I am joined by Kordella (@ms_kordella_kosor), who has more than a decade of experience being in the Sex Work industry, as an active member, a volunteer and an advocate.
With many titles under her belt including: touring stage performer, burlesque dancer, adult content creator, entrepreneur, and former Miss Nude World Hard Body, Au name tural and Best Dancer - I could not be more excited to sit down with her (via google hangouts) and pick her brain !
We cover a ton of topics this episode: working dry bars, throwing loonies for swag, booking agencies, sugaring in Vancouver, Only Fans issues, adapting to the ever changing industry, the emotional labour of SW, and upcoming ventures (hint: it involves strippers and a penthouse!).
Thanks for listening and happy hoe-ing!
Welcome back to quarantine with Dani and Riley! What is happening in the world, like seriously?! This week we: address the North Van poop lady, review the Lost Girls movie, discuss Only Fans concerns, voice our corona curiosity, and appoint our loser of the week (some disgusting slob of a man who is publicly claiming that OF girls will never find love). Shout out to @thewavedancer for being a supportive fellow SW, providing us with some stay or go scenarios and just being an overall gem of a human! And lastly... DM me and let me know what you guys would want for 50 PLUS A TIP merch! Crop tops, hoodies, pleaser bags, phone grips?! TELL ME WHAT YOU WANT!!
Thanks for listening and happy hoe-ing!
Today I am joined by Dora Kola (@dorakola) , a 24 year old exotic entertainer and badass entrepreneur based in Vancouver, Canada. If you follow Dora on Instagram (which you fucking better!!) you know she’s a no-fucks-given rocker chick who is unapologetically herself. We talk: her education and career in radio, how SW is real fucking work, slut shaming, racism in the sex industry, the fetishization of Asian women, and proudly owning who and what we are.
As always, thanks for listening and happy hoe-ing!
Hey all you cool cats and kittens!! I’m “here” with Riley and we are not letting Covid-19 stop our recording schedule (shout out to Google Hangouts). We update you on our self isolation situations, our Only Fans / camming venture, our stripper Dungeons and Dragons game and answer your weekly questions: What are you most excited for once everything opens back up (besides working)? What do you do to keep yourself mentally health during self isolation ? Do you think sex work will be affected by covid long term? What can sex workers do to help earn some income at the current moment? Do you think going through onlyfans would be better or should I sell clients my photos directly? What sites do you recommend for fetish stuff? Have you watched tiger king?
A few PSA:
50 PLUS A TIP merch may be coming!! What sort of pieces would you want? Tank tops? Pins? Phone grips? LET ME KNOW!!
Dani may begin doing virtual erotica and stretch classes - keep an eye out for announcements!
Use the 50 PLUS A TIP promo code : “TIP25” to get 25% off your entire order at Temptations Avenue Lingerie !!! (@temptationsavenuelingerie)
Thanks for listening! Have a wonderful week and happy hoe-ing!
We all know dating is HARD! But dating as a SW is a whole other thing!! This week I sit down with PR girl Halina to discuss: not being “out” as a SW, making friends in the sex industry, how to navigate the dating scene as a SW, how dating impacts your income, and how being a SW impacts your sex drive.
Also - real talk: why do these men want a “hot” woman but can’t handle it when they get one?!
Thanks for listening and happy hoe-ing!
Hello lovelies! I’m joined once again by Riley and we are recapping: corona virus pandemic, Dani’s birthday & sfu lecture, psycho exes and their terrible families, and our (embarrassingly subpar) skin care routines. We answer your questions: does your mood effect which songs you dance to? What do strip clubs do to increase your safety? Does your boss create safe spaces for you? What happens when dancers want to retire ?
Also, do we stay or go when: They only brush their teeth once a day; always wear camouflage; doesn’t own a car (or a license); has dirty finger nails; bulk bought toilet paper and hand sanitizer at the start of corona virus?
Thanks for listening and happy hoeing - Now go wash your hands!!
This week I am joined by Sahara Rose - a charismatic, fiery blonde, with ten years of experience in the industry. What started out as a means to make a few extra bucks, turned into a passion for self expression and a way to channel her outgoing personality towards a career. We talk: how the industry has changed over the last decade, how everyone is a prostitute, coworker dynamics, staying safe in the industry, dealing with stalker clients, and how we predict the industry will change in the future.
Thanks for listening and happy hoe-ing!
Hello lovely listeners! We are officially at 5000 followers and accepting sponsors! So hit us up if you or someone you know is looking for a dope ass podcast to sponsor!
Some other fun dates to note: Dani’s birthday is coming up this weekend, the next erotica dance workshop will be held in April (date TBA) and Dani will be guest lecturing at SFU March 12th.
On this week’s episode we recap Riley’s birthday weekend, discuss when it’s a good idea to move in with a partner, talk how to recover after being rejected from a club after auditioning, how to ask someone about their sexual health (STI status/ history), and how to get a guy to wear a condom when they really don’t want to.
Thanks for listening and happy hoe-ing!
On this week’s episode, Riley and I have the pleasure of interviewing an American couple living in New Zealand who recently dove into a "sluttaissance" together. Think “swinging” (sort of) but with a hot young husband and wife who have so much love and trust in one another, exploring their sexuality with other people as a couple. Libby (a naturopath) and Gregg (with a doctorate in psychology) answered our many questions with openness and humour: do your friends/family know about your sexual situation? How did you know that this was something you wanted to try? How did you first begin your journey into it? What has been the most challenging aspect? Is it ever uncomfortable/ awkward? Can you go back to monogamy after exploring being poly as a couple? How do you meet other open individuals / couples? And WHO THE FUCK CAME IN HER EYE?!!
Thanks for listening and happy hoe-ing!
On this episode of 50 Plus A Tip, we are freezing our asses off in Riley’s ice cube of a bedroom!
We go over where our listeners are from, share our very sad Valentine’s Days and discuss that Dani is extremely intimidating (read: super cool).
As always we answer listener questions: how do you screen clients for sugaring? What’s the strip scene like in Vegas / tips for working in Vegas? How does it work being a sober stripper? How do you stay motivated when you don’t have anyone telling you to work ?
And... We introduce a new portion of the show called: “Should I stay or should I go now?” Would we stay with a partner if they: Slept with your best friend? Doesn’t go down on you? Slid into everyone’s dms before you met them? Doesn’t wash their hands with soap? Doesn’t groom down there? We are here tackling the real burning questions, people!
Lastly, an important PSA: Dani is teaching an Erotic Dance class Sunday March 8th @ 7:30-9:30pm in Vancouver! Come celebrate INTERNATIONAL WOMEN’S DAY with me - Click the link in the bio to get your tickets!
Thanks for listening and happy hoe-ing!!
This week I am joined by Naomi Vice (@naomixvice) - an exotic performer based in Vancouver with a flair for sensual movement and musicality. With a background in ballet, jazz, and musical theatre, it only makes sense that performing became her full-time gig. She is also a professional singer with a music degree and an actor working in the film industry. Naomi is grateful to use the exotic industry as a platform for her many talents.
We talk: the difference between dancing stage and dancing vip / freelancing; being a gorgeous Filipino lady in the strip world; traveling out of town for work; putting together a good stage set; tips for ladies wanting to start stage and/or traveling; how burlesque differs from stripping; and dish on the good and the bad places to work in BC.
Thank you for listening and happy hoe-ing!
We’re back bitches! Happy 2020!
This is the first episode of season 2 and it’s a long one (you’re welcome). Trigger warning: this episode talks about eating disorders and sexual assault. Yes, they are heavy topics but that doesn’t mean we should shy away from them. In fact - silence and secrecy can be dangerous, so let’s start talking!
This episode we also cover a ton of other things: we share our 2020 resolutions, go over my surgery details, recap December and January, share more stories about annoying people on Instagram, condom use & STDs/STIs and most common questions/remarks from clients in the strip club.
Finally, we tackle the first round of questions of 2020: how do I stay safe and set boundaries when arranging a sugar daddy meet? How do you clarify with a client that he needs to pay you for a date? How can a client protect himself from online scams or stings? Do clients like smart girls or does it intimidate them? What’s the most fulfilling part about sex work?
PSA : Valentine’s / Galentine’s Day is coming up and what better excuse to get your sexy on! I’ll be teaching another lap dance course in Vancouver on Feb 10th @ 7-9pm. CLICK THE LINK in @50plusatip ig bio to GET YOUR TICKET!!
Thanks for joining us for the first episode of the SECOND SEASON of 50 Plus A Tip and happy hoe-ing!!
Well my lovely listeners, it is officially the holidays and the end of Season 1. To wrap up the season we discuss… our December work experiences (the good, the bad and the downright embarrassing), angry listeners being keyboard warriors, PR cat-fishing, and webcam safety concerns. We finish the episode (and first season) by answering a TON of listener questions: how to do taxes as a dancer, who is Dani’s lash girl (@lashesbyvanna), how much MLs should a newbie get in her lips, what’s going on with Only Fans, how to handle a regular who wants a discount, what advice we would give to our younger stripper selves, how to build pole strength, how to approach clients, how to know if someone is a time waster, what’s the biggest downside of being a sex worker, how to overcome burnout in the short term, what are the typical lame comments we hear from customers, and what are our Christmas plans!
Some PSAs:
Thank you to the amazing Shawna from @summershadesspraytan for a gorgeous spray tan and for sharing my laser hair removal story with @jimmycoco & @kimkardashian who sent me some lovely KKW products to help cover my leg scars. Make sure to check them out!
I’m hosting a Valentine’s LAP DANCE course: Feb 10th!! Check ig to keep up to date on tickets sales!
I’ll be running off to Miami Jan 5 to get some plastic surgery so feel free to email / DM me! I’ll be bored while I’m hibernating and healing so... LOVE ME DAMMIT!
And lastly, THANK YOU to all of my season 1 guests and to all of you lovely listeners / followers!! You have been so engaging, supportive and absolutely amazing!!
I’ll be back with you all in mid February! Have a wonderful holidays and a fabulous new year …
Thank you for listening and happy hohoho-ing!!
This week I am joined by Jennifer Doan (@jenn_doan), a sex educator, podcast host and self-proclaimed slut! We talk: that “feminine” and “masculine” are bullshit terms, why “virginity” is a problematic social construct, what “feminism” means / should mean, how your sexuality can constantly change and evolve, what squirting is, THC lube, and unpack some of the common misconceptions surrounding female genitalia, periods, and sex! Please note: your sex is NORMAL!
Thanks for listening and happy hoe-ing!
This week I sat down with Sia (@strippedbysia) a fellow stripper-podcaster-hybrid to discuss: how taking a pole class in her 30s led to a successful stripper career, competing in pole dance competitions, balancing a corporate job and a stripping career, squares pole dancing while shaming strippers, going on trips with sugar daddies, the dangers of meeting sugar daddies online, and eating fermented shark.
Thanks for listening and happy hoe-ing!
Once again I’m joined by Riley and we talk: how crowds and woos don’t pay our bills, Dani is now a gamer nerd, more loser men on Instagram, plastic surgery, how to get a stripper to go out with you, SW terms and jargon, contents of our stripper bag and how to avoid December burn out. ALSO: I have received several messages from both men and women interested in taking the lap dance course. Lap dance classes aren’t just for women! I am more than happy to teach some classes strictly for females and offer some classes for all genders. Therefore, Males, females, whatever you identify as MESSAGE ME if you’d like to attend the next lap dance class!
Thanks for listening and happy hoe-ing!!
